Mother’s Day is almost here. So before you run out and buy the typical potted plant or new shirt, here are a few ideas for those who are on a low-budget.
Technology assistance – Is there something that she can’t do without your help? I recently took the time to download a few games on her tablet, and she couldn’t have been more thankful. Sit down with a computer and show her a few tricks about how to get out of annoying Facebook conversations, or see just the people she wants to see on her feed.
Handwritten Card – Anyone else suffering sticker shock from greeting cards? Avoid them altogether. Your mother remembers your cards from childhood with misspelled words, and stick people. A hand-written card still has the same affect today. It doesn’t have to be poetic, or grammatically correct. Just put your thoughts down.
Facebook Adoration – While this does not count as a gift or personal interaction, showing that you are publicly thankful and proud of your mother will definitely lift her spirits.
Time Alone – Schedule a time alone with mom where the two of you go for a walk, or spend time doing an activity that you enjoy together. If you can’t do it on Mother’s Day, then schedule a special time and date so she knows that it is coming. Avoid problem topics, and just reminisce on your lives together.
Personalized Jewelry – While you could pick up a necklace as you walk through Kohl’s, it will probably after a few weeks end up hidden in her jewelry box. However, a personalized piece of jewelry will melt their heart, and will stick around a while. Here is a company that I highly suggest.
Surprise Visit – If you are away at school, pack your bags and make a trip home just for her. (Make sure you don’t bring her your dirty laundry like I did once…or twice.) Ring the doorbell, and wait for her to come to the door. Mothers love their kids, and what is better than extra time.
Work Together – Is there something you know how to do, that could help her out? Helping mom get that closet clean, or washing the windows. Some chores are accomplished better when you are not alone.
If you thought this article would solve Mother’s Day as easily as walking into a department store, I am sorry.
Whatever you do, make sure that it is tailored specifically to your mom. Walmart can’t do that. Target always misses the mark. The perfect gift really only comes when you spend time planning it.
Only you know your mother, and can make her Mother’s Day special.
Written by: G. David Boyd
